Here are 5 simple tips to avoid a divorce that I would like to share with you.

1.Take action

So, things are rough but you want to make it work? Then take action. If you are serious about wanting to stop a divorce, don’t panic, don’t get gloomy, instead take action. Keep reading below for a strong start to actionable steps.

2. Avoid the blame game

It’s o.k. to wonder,“How could this happen to me?”, “How could you do this to me?” 10 out of 10 times guilting spouse for affection will not win them back. Instead, it might lead to a depressed state of living for both of you.

3. Always look your best

Yes keeping up your appearance can make a big difference in the odds of success in stopping a divorce. Try new things:

• Lose weight. 
• Rethink your hairstyle. 
• Update your clothes you’ve been wearing: throw out those baggy sweat pants and outdated shoes.

4. Address all the issues that caused the hurts – Get a Pen!

It is a good idea to find out the root cause of the resentments and bad feelings your spouse carries that may have been factors that led to filing for a divorce.  Write out a list of all the moments that was done to make you fell angry and sad.

5. Always remember to believe in yourself

You are going through an emotional struggle but it is still important to know your worth. Stay positive and spread a positive vibe, choose a daily mantra and say it to yourself multiple times a day … “I know I can, I know I can.”